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Alex Habriga's avatar

I’m so happy for both of you, Erin. Congratulations.

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Erin Reed's avatar

I'm so happy too! Thank you!

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Jennifer Gomez's avatar

I watched the proposal last night & after getting tearful over Zooey’s speech, I gasped & hooted in joy alone in my house when she dropped to one knee! My joy as mom to a beloved trans son, is bolstered by this privilege of watching your lives unfold in this beautiful way. May your life together be filled with this powerful and nourishing good as you fiercely face what lies ahead. 🫶🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈💙

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Branwyn Tylwyth's avatar

I saw this across multiple news outlets over the weekend and it brought me so much joy. Hearing it directly from you is even better!

Congrats, y’all. 💖

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Erin Reed's avatar

Thanks! We are so happy!

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finnigan (she/him, he/her)'s avatar

congratulations!!! my partner (T4T as well~) and i spent some time on friday getting our relationship codified as a domestic partnership, with my supervisor notarizing the documents. now he'll have access to my health insurance! and we're in one of the safest states, thank goodness. i am so grateful for your journalism and for your future wife's advocacy in montana. so much love to you both. i am wishing earnestly for each of you to stay safe, at peace, and full of joy.

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Cassandra Stewart's avatar

Congratulations!

You can tell Zooey that both you and she have helped me to accept myself for who I am, and to be out and proud.

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Myrddin's avatar

Congratulations!! That's so exciting.

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Erin Reed's avatar

thank you!!!

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Erica_Rose's avatar

Erin Reed and Zooey Zephyr, congratulations on your engagement! I wish you all the best in your future, filled with love, happiness, and growth. Witnessing two people find love and joy is heartwarming, and I hope your story inspires others to embrace themselves and others.

As for my wife and me, we'll be celebrating 37 years this summer, and my being trans has never affected our love for each other. Our love grew stronger because of our mutual openness and communication. We're sending our love and support, wishing you a queer version of "Love and Happiness ever after." We can attest that it exists.

Sustaining a balance between work and love is essential, and we appreciate your service to the trans community. But we also look forward to seeing more posts about how you care for each other and find joy together.

We are sending lots of love.

Erica & Karen

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Laura Jedeed's avatar

The world has seemed very dark lately and this story is so beautiful. Wishing you both all the happiness in the world

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Craig Henderson's avatar

What a wonderful story! I wish you a life together filled with joy and a development of strength and unity through the struggles you face.

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Cayenne's avatar

Congratulations!! Such good news, and such a beautiful story. You both deserve all the happiness!

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Erin Reed's avatar

It has just been so amazing!

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Rachel Taylor's avatar

Congrats!!! This is the good new I needed to keep going today! So happy for you two!

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Erin Reed's avatar

That makes me really happy :)

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JanieJane's avatar

Erin, this news fills me with joy for you both. What a great blessing. My sincere congratulations to you. This is the best kind of news!

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Erin Reed's avatar

We really appreciate it!

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JanieJane's avatar

And thank you for sharing this with us. You both mean a lot to the people you serve!

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Gwen Morgan's avatar

This makes me so happy! Why am I crying? No, you're crying! No, dammit, I'm crying. Hugs and love to both of you. Blessings!

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Heather's avatar

This makes my heart so happy to see! Thank you for sharing! You both bring us much joy and hope for the future.

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Persephone's avatar

Congrats to you and Zooey, Erin! I wish the both of you many happy years together!

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Andrew's avatar

Beautiful! Congratulations, and thank you so much. You’ve both brought so much joy and love to the world.

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