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WmnOfDistxn's avatar

This is a relief to read. And I also think about the glaring hypocrisy in the argument for “states rights and parents’ rights,” which the far right is always screaming about. These anti-trans EOs seem to fly in the face of those far right assertions.

Also a personal story about the delusion on the right. My son is trans. He has been out since 6th grade, he is now 19 and fully transitioned. My dad, his grandfather, is a far right conservative. When we hang out with him he is respectful and caring about his grandson. He never misgenders him and has embraced his name and identity, since the moment he came out. And my son wants a relationship with his grandad. All of which is why we still hang out. And yet, just now, on the phone with my dad I expressed my fear and anxiety about what this administration is doing. His response, “you guys will be ok.” My response, “we don’t know that. You don’t know that. He’s scared to travel. He could be forced to detransition.” My dad, “that won’t happen.” Me, “It has happened before in this country. It has happened in other countries. We need to have a healthy concern about what’s happening right now.” His response, “He’ll be ok.”

I ended the conversation with asking him to think about his grandson. I reminded him that his grandson is just trying to exist in the world, and live his life, without being a target. He seemed to hear me. I don’t know if he will ever fully get it. There’s a level of personal delusion operating: MY grandson will be ok. All I can do is keep pushing him to think about these things. It’s exhausting, and the delusion is real. But it’s work I have to keep doing.

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Sandra's avatar

Yes, I strongly appreciate what the blue states are stepping up and doing.

At some point, it needs to be recognized by the courts that animus - pure and simple - is the motivating force behind these legislative attacks. GAC has existed for decades, and is supported by many major medical organizations - until conservatives came along and decided for whatever reason, they didn’t like it.

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