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Emma's avatar

I wish that I could share with her and the world, My trans child's coming-out letter to me (mum) at age 12. They spoke of events and aha moments over years, including and before age 5. They wrote so articulately and clearly that it was only knowing the word 'trans' that they realized they were not alone, and could now describe their identity. They also said, " mum, you've always said you would be there for me". I had, and I am. The alternate was to deny their heartfelt trust in me to help them exist in joy.

But, sharing such a letter would only give them fuel, and make us targets. There's no openness to learning, she's only seeking validation to hate, no more, no less. It's so hard to see.

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Abby's avatar

Next step of the fascist playbook? There is no persecution if there are no victims.

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